Book Review
Me and Earl and the Dying Girl
Read if you're interested in grief, relationships, or books for young adult.
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5.5
VerdictRead with discernment
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Book Summary
This is a coming-of-age story about an awkward high school senior, Greg, who is forced by his mother to befriend Rachel, a classmate recently diagnosed with leukemia. Greg and his friend Earl attempt to make a film for Rachel, navigating the complexities of friendship, illness, and their own insecurities.
What it does well
- — Explores themes of empathy and compassion in the face of suffering, as Greg reluctantly, then genuinely, engages with Rachel's illness.
- — Highlights the value of friendship, even if flawed and imperfect, as Greg and Earl's bond is tested and strengthened.
- — The narrative offers a realistic portrayal of grief and the challenges of confronting mortality, which can open discussions on these difficult topics.
Watch for
- — The book contains frequent strong language and crude humor, which may be a significant concern for some Christian readers and parents.
- — While exploring serious themes, the overall tone often feels nihilistic or detached, rather than offering hope or a sense of enduring purpose.
- — The characters often display cynical attitudes towards life and relationships, which do not align with a Christian worldview emphasizing love, joy, and hope.
Verdict
Christian readers, particularly younger audiences, should approach this book with discernment due to the mature language and somewhat cynical tone. While it offers a realistic look at difficult topics like illness and friendship, it lacks a faith-based perspective. Parents might consider co-reading with teens to discuss the themes from a Christian worldview.
ALIGNMYREAD RECOMMENDATION
“Christian readers, particularly younger audiences, should approach this book with discernment due to the mature language and somewhat cynical tone. While it offers a realistic look at difficult topics like illness and friendship, it lacks a faith-based perspective. Parents might consider co-reading with teens to discuss the themes from a Christian worldview.”
Biblical alignment
- —Explores themes of empathy and compassion in the face of suffering, as Greg reluctantly, then genuinely, engages with Rachel's illness.
- —Highlights the value of friendship, even if flawed and imperfect, as Greg and Earl's bond is tested and strengthened.
- —The narrative offers a realistic portrayal of grief and the challenges of confronting mortality, which can open discussions on these difficult topics.
- —The self-deprecating humor and authentic voice of the protagonist can be relatable to young readers struggling with their identity and social anxieties.
Areas of concern
- —The book contains frequent strong language and crude humor, which may be a significant concern for some Christian readers and parents.
- —While exploring serious themes, the overall tone often feels nihilistic or detached, rather than offering hope or a sense of enduring purpose.
- —The characters often display cynical attitudes towards life and relationships, which do not align with a Christian worldview emphasizing love, joy, and hope.
- —There is a lack of explicit spiritual or religious elements, which means the narrative does not offer a faith-based lens for understanding suffering or death.
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